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Caring for an ageing parent

Talk to the council, GP and hospital about a parent's care.

Hello, I'd like to request a needs assessment for my mum, please.

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Getting care set up4

  1. I'd like to request a needs assessment for my mumRing adult social care at the council.
  2. I'm her main carer. Can I have a carer's assessmentA separate assessment of your own needs as an unpaid carer.
  3. We're looking at having carers coming inHome care (officially 'domiciliary care'): carers visit the house, for example 'two calls a day'.
  4. Is it a residential home or a nursing home?Both are care homes, but a nursing home has registered nurses on site for medical needs.

Money and benefits4

  1. Can I claim Carer's Allowance?A benefit for people who care for someone 35 or more hours a week, where that person gets certain disability benefits.
  2. Is she entitled to Attendance Allowance?A benefit for people over State Pension age who need help with care.
  3. Has she been assessed for Continuing Healthcare?NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC).
  4. Is it means-tested?Will they look at her savings and property to decide who pays?

Hospital and legal3

  1. What's the care package for when she's discharged?Before she leaves hospital, ask what support has been arranged for her at home.
  2. We need to sort out a lasting power of attorneyAn LPA lets you make decisions for a parent.
  3. Can my mum come over on a visitor visa to stay with us?A visitor visa is for visiting, not for moving here.

GP and wellbeing4

  1. Can you put me on the carers' register?Asks the GP to record that you're a carer.
  2. She's getting a bit forgetfulThe gentle British way to bring up possible dementia.
  3. I need a bit of respiteRespite is a short break for the carer while someone else takes over the care.
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Who do you ring for a needs assessment?

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